Comments on: In defense of my johns, and all the rest of you, too http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/2010/01/05/in-defense-of-my-johns-and-all-the-rest-of-you-too/ Wed, 24 Aug 2011 21:39:19 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Ms_Alisa http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/2010/01/05/in-defense-of-my-johns-and-all-the-rest-of-you-too/comment-page-1/#comment-140 Ms_Alisa Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:03:03 +0000 http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/?p=449#comment-140 Heh. People who are being brave rarely *feel* brave at the time, or so I hear. ;> Hit your pages on FB. ;> Fair warning: I play Mafia Wars and Vamp Wars, and I would *seriously* turn off those notifications from your feed, or block the apps all together. Spam central, and only some of the Vamp avatars are vaguely sexy. ;> And yes, things come when one is ready for them. I don't regret the time that I spent outside of 'sex IS life!' land... out of the various 'lifestyles' that I flirted on the edges of. But it is comforting to know that, as I age, it is still there, alive and well, just waiting for me to rejoin the party. The buffet is endless, and I'm old enough now to know myself, my boundaries, and my own desires and beliefs. In other words, old enough to Play. ;> I'm so looking forward to becoming a kick-ass PSO. :D And I'm glad I have some people to look up to. :D Heh. People who are being brave rarely *feel* brave at the time, or so I hear. ;>

Hit your pages on FB. ;> Fair warning: I play Mafia Wars and Vamp Wars, and I would *seriously* turn off those notifications from your feed, or block the apps all together. Spam central, and only some of the Vamp avatars are vaguely sexy. ;>

And yes, things come when one is ready for them. I don’t regret the time that I spent outside of ’sex IS life!’ land… out of the various ‘lifestyles’ that I flirted on the edges of. But it is comforting to know that, as I age, it is still there, alive and well, just waiting for me to rejoin the party. The buffet is endless, and I’m old enough now to know myself, my boundaries, and my own desires and beliefs. In other words, old enough to Play. ;>

I’m so looking forward to becoming a kick-ass PSO. :D And I’m glad I have some people to look up to. :D

]]> By: camerynmoore http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/2010/01/05/in-defense-of-my-johns-and-all-the-rest-of-you-too/comment-page-1/#comment-139 camerynmoore Fri, 05 Feb 2010 14:29:40 +0000 http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/?p=449#comment-139 @Ms. Alisa, thank you so much for your kind words! It's a strange feeling to find some sort of home in phone sex, but you are absolutely right in phrasing it that way, and that's how I felt, too, after the initial nerves wore off. I definitely wished I had started doing it 8 years ago, when I first investigated it, but hey, things come when you're ready for them, right? Now I have a hard time imagining doing anything else for paid work! As for the activism and comedy, the public owning of it, well, that doesn't feel so much brave as loud-mouthed, which is my natural condition, but as long as it has the same social-change effect in the end, I'm satisfied. so, welcome to PSO Land, baby! I'm glad you found the pso forum and I'm glad you found me. Look me up on facebook and friend me, ooh, and join my friend/fan group, especially if you want to keep up with what I'm doing with my play this summer and fall. Hope your phone rings off the hook! [WORDPRESS HASHCASH] The poster sent us '0 which is not a hashcash value. @Ms. Alisa, thank you so much for your kind words! It’s a strange feeling to find some sort of home in phone sex, but you are absolutely right in phrasing it that way, and that’s how I felt, too, after the initial nerves wore off. I definitely wished I had started doing it 8 years ago, when I first investigated it, but hey, things come when you’re ready for them, right? Now I have a hard time imagining doing anything else for paid work! As for the activism and comedy, the public owning of it, well, that doesn’t feel so much brave as loud-mouthed, which is my natural condition, but as long as it has the same social-change effect in the end, I’m satisfied.

so, welcome to PSO Land, baby! I’m glad you found the pso forum and I’m glad you found me. Look me up on facebook and friend me, ooh, and join my friend/fan group, especially if you want to keep up with what I’m doing with my play this summer and fall. Hope your phone rings off the hook!

[WORDPRESS HASHCASH] The poster sent us ‘0 which is not a hashcash value.

]]> By: Ms_Alisa http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/2010/01/05/in-defense-of-my-johns-and-all-the-rest-of-you-too/comment-page-1/#comment-138 Ms_Alisa Fri, 05 Feb 2010 13:25:44 +0000 http://www.camerynmoore.com/blog/?p=449#comment-138 Thank you for the activism that you do. I am a huge fan of Carol Queen, and last night, I discovered _you_. No, I am not completely read up on you, or anything... but I will get there, because you are the voice I have been looking for in the wilderness of the Internet. Someone who is doing, and *talking*, NOW. I want to be as brave as you are some day. I do it for the guys; I do it for myself. I am still super new to it, but it feels like it could be home. I get this, I was made for this... I started to learn about it long ago, then went and got married and respectable and shut it down for a while, and had kids. But he married me for the slut in me, and he's supportive of my new foray into phone sex (I found you from your posts on a pso board! Thanks! ). Surprisingly, all of my friends have been incredibly supportive, as was my sister. My parents didn't even bat an eye when I told them. ;> I have great people, _sex-positive_ people all around me, and I think our culture is looking for voices like yours. I know that I am. :) Thanks for speaking up, for all of us, and to all of us. It really helps! Thank you for the activism that you do. I am a huge fan of Carol Queen, and last night, I discovered _you_.

No, I am not completely read up on you, or anything… but I will get there, because you are the voice I have been looking for in the wilderness of the Internet. Someone who is doing, and *talking*, NOW.

I want to be as brave as you are some day.

I do it for the guys; I do it for myself. I am still super new to it, but it feels like it could be home. I get this, I was made for this… I started to learn about it long ago, then went and got married and respectable and shut it down for a while, and had kids.

But he married me for the slut in me, and he’s supportive of my new foray into phone sex (I found you from your posts on a pso board! Thanks! ). Surprisingly, all of my friends have been incredibly supportive, as was my sister. My parents didn’t even bat an eye when I told them. ;> I have great people, _sex-positive_ people all around me, and I think our culture is looking for voices like yours.

I know that I am. :) Thanks for speaking up, for all of us, and to all of us. It really helps!

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