TERRIBLE SEX TIPS: “There Are 8 Kinds Of Female Orgasms â€” Here’s How To Have Them All!”
The frequent stimulation of the throat and experiencing these [throat] orgasms can lead to a better connection with your intuition and feminine wisdom, a deeper expression of your needs, creative and artistic abilities, and your higher potential.
When we regularly deep-throat our partnersâ€™ dicks, WE CAN BECOME BETTER WOMEN, HOORAY.
Yes indeed, there is much to thrill the Terrible Sex Tip fan in this article, and by thrill I mean creep you right the fuck out. For starters, itâ€™s another article that makes orgasms feel like PokÃ©mon: gotta have â€˜em all!
Well, no, we donâ€™t have to. Weâ€™re being told we should want them all, and should strive to have them all becauseâ€¦ because… Guh, this is the part that makes me get all tin-foil-hat about a distracted populace being an essential part of late-stage capitalism. MOVING ON.
Let me say that I have had profoundly moving and mysterious experiences in sex. I have come just from squeezing my thighs together and listening to my partner talk on the phone. Mostly I just chalk that sort of thing up to the human mind being a strange and glorious place; I donâ€™t feel the need to pin that down or replicate the experience.
I donâ€™t mind if other people talk about chakras and light and transcendence. If that gives you something to meditate on, more power and blessings be on your sexual-spiritual adventures. But everyone Iâ€™ve seen writing for mainstream media about tantric practices, they canâ€™t stop there. Like the writer of this article, they just keep going with what I consider unsubstantiated bullshit.
He makes a little bit of room in the piece for more obscure orgasms, like the nipple orgasm. â€œThe nipples â€¦ are connected via energy channels to the clitoris.â€ Fuckinâ€™ WUT. What energy channels? Nerve endings are real, and yeah, they are weird; I personally can make little sparks happen down there if I stick my finger deep enough in my belly button. (I don’t do that anymore, but I did when I was eight. Don’t judge me.) But I donâ€™t assume that everyone has that same neurological bridge.
The author put something called a “urinary orgasm” in here. Itâ€™s relatively rare, he says. Just drink a lot of water and release it mid-fucking, he says. Put some towels down, he says. Thatâ€™s called water sports, dude, and relief at getting to pee is not the same thing as having an orgasm.
In classic over-generalising style, the writer dismisses the clitoral orgasm as â€œshallowâ€ and something to avoid whenever possibleâ€”â€œIt just doesn’t serve you and charge you like deep vaginal orgasms do,â€ fucking WAT. He then goes on to describe other types of orgasms that originate deeper into the cunt, with the orgasms supposedly getting correspondingly better untilâ€”surprise, surprise!â€”we reach the cervical orgasm.
Yes, that’s the one that you â€œprobably havenâ€™t heard of,â€ the one that you canâ€™t really have when youâ€™re being a floozy and sleeping around, the one that requires you to fucking get pounded on your cervixâ€¦ the cervical orgasm is the holy grail for many tantra people, based on what I’ve read. Like many an article about the cornucopia of female orgasms, this guy pretty cavalierly dismisses clitoral orgasms as being shallow compared to vaginal orgasms, and then vaginal orgasms are like an ephemeral breeze compared to the cervical orgasm.
Please, can you just let people explore themselves and not assign any inherent value to whichever methods and holes and dangly bits they like?
Speaking of holes, this writer went to a lot of effort to hit all of them. I will buy anal orgasms, because when someone is having a good time down your back alley, thereâ€™s a LOT going on, sensitive tissues moving back and forth, etc. But throat orgasms? The pleasure I get from deep throating is entirely from being in a certain subby head space, very little if any from the physicality of it, because the uvula is not a clit analogue. The author says there is a minor chakra back there that you can pound, er, stimulate, which he says results in a different orgasm. Don’t worry if you start gagging, or â€œif some fluids come up. Youâ€™ll get better at it over time.â€ And you want this, yes you do! Becauseâ€¦. Wait for itâ€¦
â€œThe frequent stimulation of the throat and experiencing these orgasms can lead to a better connection with your intuition and feminine wisdom, a deeper expression of your needs, creative and artistic abilities, and your higher potential.â€
When we frequently deep-throat our partnersâ€™ dicks, WE CAN BECOME BETTER WOMEN, HOORAY.
To be completely honest, I should probably stop looking at any article that talks about tantra. I experience deep connections, but the spiritual shit sends me right up the wall. Iâ€™m sure thereâ€™s a way that people can write about those deep connections without COMPLETELY raising my hackles, but I havenâ€™t found it yet. In the meantime, the mainstream articles are going out there, about getting past those cheap floozy clitoral orgasms and being smug about being BALLS DEEP IN SOMEONE’S CHAKRAS.
I mean, is that what tantra is all about? Spiritual deep-dicking? That’s what I’m seeing out there, and that’s what this article feels like. If not, then please, my tantric friends: get some other writers, maybe even yourself, to WRITE IT BETTER, because your current PR volunteers are not repping you well.
Also, if sex tips leave people feeling bad about the good things they already enjoy, those tips are not transcendent, they are Terrible.
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