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FROM THE FUCKBUCKET: “How to help a friend in a club, from a harasser, when she acts against that help?”

That sounds both alarming and frustrating to be in your shoes, watching your friend behave in a way that seems counterproductive, if not actually risky. Whether this is happening in a nightclub or a sex club—I can’t tell, and it doesn’t really matter—women and people...

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FROM THE FUCKBUCKET: If you are a top in a consensual rape scene, does that mean you have rapist tendencies?

Is consensual non-consensual sex (e.g. choking or rape fantasy) anti-feminist? Then, if you enjoy the “consensual rapist” role, does that mean that you have rapist tendencies? Short answer: not necessarily. I firmly believe that no fantasies or consensual play are inherently bad, by whatever moral/ethical standards you’re...

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