I posted this Fuckbucket form on Facebook recently, and someone commented that they didn’t understand why the fuss, if the activity was specifically requested. Another person responded with the quote in this post's headline. Full disclosure: I know both commenters, so I've had or will have...
View MoreI won’t say that I have absorbed anything dramatically new to my own pleasure/fantasy/sex/kink palate. (I assume you’re talking about my years in phone work; Sidewalk Smut is very much the same kind of work.) I’m a little more curious about men in feminine clothing,...
View MoreI got my two-year working visa for Germany last month, which means I have two years to establish myself as a working artist here. Which is actually the longest period of time ever that a country has given me to be in it and work...
View MoreWhen someone says they have no limits in their kink, I give them so much side eye. I haven’t seen many other subs in action, because I don’t go out to play parties much, but when I was doing phone sex, I heard that sort of...
View MoreI would like to play well with others. I used to. Growing up, I had to; with seven kids in the family, you share your toys or someone is going to get an actual piece of leftover two-by-four in the face. Plus we were all sporty,...
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Sometimes our erotic imagination is where contradictions meet. Who needs pre-fab visuals when I can make up a whole terrifying thing just about this? For example, I hate horror movies. I mean, I can barely watch any grown-up movies with any violence at...
View MoreMy hottest epiphany was, in itself, not hot. It was the opposite of hot. It was the coldest that I had felt in my life up until that point, and it happened in my counselor’s office when I was rocking back and forth in a...
View MoreI have written about the concept of “home†frequently and at length. As a touring artist, I am understandably a little obsessed, while at the same time trying to be chill about it. I’ve tried to be all, you know, I’m tough, I only need...
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Have you given up on guilt? If so, when did you do that? If not, why not? Generally I try to avoid both, but it happens. First, let’s clarify: guilt is not the same thing as shame. Guilt is when I feel bad...
View MoreWere you always so open about sex and sexual experiences, or was it something you became more open about over time? If it was over time, why? At this point I really am pretty upfront about most of it. Neither our ability nor...
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