I have a new partner who is pretty shy during sex. She likes it to be dark and usually has her eyes closed. How can I encourage her to look at me/make eye contact? First of all, thank you for using the word "encourage"; that is...
View MoreA common question that I get about my time doing phone sex is, “Did you ever get stumped on a call?†That is, did I ever get a call for something that I knew nothing about or otherwise didn’t know how to handle? The answer, of...
View MoreMy new girlfriend is super into me and vice versa. However, she is so much hotter than me, so I’m finding it hard to believe she likes me as much as she obviously does. How do I deal with this? Oh, my dearest Slammer. I am...
View More“How many dates before you bring out the strap-on?†Lovely Fuckbucketeer, let me put one thing out there first: surprise strap-ons are never the way to go. Anything penetrative and/or dick-shaped is usually going to be a strongly individual preference or anti-preference, shall we call it....
View MoreBelieve it or not, I am NOT a fan of public sex, for myself. Sure, the occasional ass squeeze or crotch grope with a lover is in my repertoire, and I have been known to get pretty damn steamy down a dark alleyway or country...
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How much effort do you really want to put into getting that mask off his face? And I'm like, sure, hit me up, I'm not a psychologist, but I sure have opinions. So here's the note, and a clarifying exchange that the...
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