Iâ€™ve had trans partners who want to call their genitals different names to penis/vulva. Do you have any sexy suggestions?
If there is one thing Iâ€™ve learned from eight years of Smut Slam, eight years of phone sex work, eight years of Sidewalk Smut, and a... View More
One interesting potential side effect of exploring polyamory is that it can bring people way down deeper into the question of â€œwhat does this relationship mean?â€ It doesnâ€™t alwaysâ€”some people just donâ€™t want to go that deepâ€”but for people who are trying to pay attention... View More
That sounds both alarming and frustrating to be in your shoes, watching your friend behave in a way that seems counterproductive, if not actually risky. Whether this is happening in a nightclub or a sex clubâ€”I canâ€™t tell, and it doesnâ€™t really matterâ€”women and people... View More
Short answer: â€œCheering him upâ€ needs to be lower on your list of things to do.
As with many Fuckbucket items, there is no context here, so Iâ€™m going to hazard a few educated and/or statistically probable guesses:
This is a straight couple (individual orientations unknown),... View More
I dealt with this issue as a phone sex operator; now I'm dealing with it as a performer and host producing "sexy"-ish events. So I thought I'd lay out my thoughts about how to talk about sex with someone who is a sex(ualized) worker, outside... View More
The best way, goodness. Youâ€™re asking someone who has never had sex in an airplane. The closest Iâ€™ve come was sex in a train compartment, once in a private compartment, and one time shared, both times awkward in their own ways.
Additionally, the Fuckbucketeer asks about... View More
When people ask this sort of â€œhow do I know ifâ€¦â€ question, it usually means one of two things:
you want the thing to be true, e.g. you want to have a fetish, or
you donâ€™t want the thing to be true, that is, you... View More
I posted this Fuckbucket form on Facebook recently, and someone commented that they didnâ€™t understand why the fuss, if the activity was specifically requested. Another person responded with the quote in this post's headline.
Full disclosure: I know both commenters, so I've had or will have... View More
I consider myself mainly hetero and want to get to know how sex with another man is. How do I meet somebody and should I explain my situation or just pretend I am into men?
Online dating was MADE for people like you: you know exactly... View More
Y'all, I was too tired to put it down in writing, but this question from one of the Smut Slams kinda stuck in my head and made me want to respond.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIuySqKrmd0... View More