Opening night of nerdfucker in Brighton Fringe, four people in the audience. (For people who aren’t familiar with fringe theatre, don’t worry. I’m fine. Small audiences can be par for the course for a “niche show†at the beginning of a run when you haven’t...
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My partner wants to tie me up and tickle me. I love being dominated by him, but I don’t like tickling. Yet I am intrigued. Please tell me more about tickling. Okay. On its own, tickling is just a form of sensation play. It can be...
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This is two shows, the Smut Stand, and four months of touring on there. Respect the roadie cart! Time was, when I toured, I rejected most offers of help: to load my car, to load my roadie cart, to pack up my...
View MoreWelcome to "From the Fuckbucket," my newest experiment in blog subseries, in which I respond more fully to anonymous questions deposited in the Fuckbucket at Smut Slams. If anyone thinks that Smut Slams are pure, unadulterated filth, just non-stop sexual sewage filling up the room, let me disabuse...
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Shoulda thought about spanking her ass before you tied off that Saran Wrap. Kitchens are sexy as fuck, but only if you’re observing all the safety rules and laws of physics! Let’s get some real talk up in this joint, a recent piece...
View MoreWelcome to "From the Fuckbucket," my newest experiment in blog subseries, in which I respond more fully to anonymous questions deposited in the Fuckbucket at Smut Slams. When spring rolls around, Smut Slammers’ minds naturally turn to outdoor sex. I was glad to see that even the UK...
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What's on _your_ grocery list? My first-ever personals ad—written for craigslist with the help of a friend—was so short. “Fierce articulate bi-dyke with big tits seeks caring confident man who won’t bore me. We both make conscious choices about our atypical sex lives.†Other...
View MoreWelcome to "From the Fuckbucket," my newest experiment in blog subseries, in which I respond more fully to anonymous questions deposited in the Fuckbucket at Smut Slams. Fuckbucket questions always lack context, but they’re normally a little more specific than this week's: "How deep is too deep?"...
View MoreI’ve been on the sex-positive train for a long time, as a writer, performer, and sometimes-educator. People out in the world seemed quite happy and ready to pin that tag on me when describing a Smut Slam, for example, and when I looked over my...
View MoreI’m finally getting to the point where I know other artists in my stop-over cities, and by “know†I mean they’ve been a Smut Slam judge or I appeared in one of their gigs and at the very least we’re friends on Facebook. It’s also...
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