They say one of the best ways to build rapport when talking with someone is to match their speaking patterns, and then move it in the mood you want it to go. In phone sex, I have certainly found that to be true. Hell, I've...
View MoreWe only talk every two or three months, when he's on a business trip and staying in a hotel. I would love to see the face of the hotel staff member who walks by his room right when he's getting really ramped up, because he's...
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Everybody needs to unwind sometimes after a tough day at work...
View MoreHe's not a regular, more of a potential regular. We've talked twice in the past six weeks, and I think he digs my style enough that he could start requesting me. I hope he does, because he's a fun one, entering into both the conversation...
View MoreI call him my gardening sweetheart from Alabama (I've written about him previously here), and he stresses me out almost more than any other caller. Not for what we talk about doing during our monthly calls, but for the fact that he is clearly old...
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Working with other people's sex lives makes mine feel a little weirder sometimes...
View MoreHe doesn't request me or call very often, but his set-up is so specific that I have no problem remembering. Also he has what I think is an Australian accent. ANYWAY, he spends the first few minutes talking about a girl—any girl, for a little while...
View MoreI got a comment on a recent blog post, wondering how my clients would feel if they knew that I was drawing from our encounters for writing material. The tone of the comment felt slightly accusatory, as if in the commenter's mind the answer was...
View MoreI hate it when I get a new guy for only 7 minutes. That's not a lot of time to build rapport—10 minutes is ideal—and it's a tight time window in which to "get 'er done". I certainly don't expect a lot of chit-chat. But...
View MoreI'm the sexy stepmother and he's 14. He's got a remarkably well-thought-out vignette planned for us, the standard I'm-too-shy-around-girls-can-you-give-me-advice prologue but he really wants to keep the ramp-up going. I mean, we seriously get into sex-ed, after-school-special territory ("I know, honey, sometime you just get...
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